Do you know the secret to relationships? Do You know how to get the one you want?
It all comes down to one principle. One idea. This one idea will bring you the relationship of your dreams.
If you want them flocking to you, this is the trick.
You know how everybody says that people are more attractive when they don't want you? That sounds really dysfunctional and manipulative. But there is an underlying principle that explains this phenomenon which is actually quite healthy.
There is something to be said for physical attraction and "wanting" someone.
But on a deeper level, in order to create your ideal relationship, or even if you just want the ones you're interested in to be interested in you, you do have to not want them.
Let me break this down.
You can have what you want, as long as you don't want it. Sound crazy? It's not. The very act of wanting comes from a place of lack.
Are you familiar with the Jesus quote, "Whatever you ask for in prayer, believe that you have received it, and it will be yours."?
Notice how you are instructed to believe that you have already received it? The significance of this idea is mind-blowing.
In order to get anything that you want, you must believe that you already have it, and you do have it! So if you wish to be in your ideal relationship, be in it right now in your imagination.
I am not talking about "living in a dream world" or disconnecting from realty. I am telling you that you must feel the feelings of being in your ideal relationship before that person is ever actually going to show up.
That's just the way that it works. And if you want more people to be interested in you, all you have to do is believe that they are, and they are!
If this sounds to good to be true to you, I challenge you to try it.
See what happens.
My name is Jon Staiger and I aspire to help people create the life of their dreams.
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