OK. You have joined a couple of date services and written a killer profile. You've uploaded a good picture and now you are going to chat with a contact. What now? How does one start separating people who have real potential and people who don't have any potential at all? You need to find out something about who this bizarre lady really is and not just who she would like you to believe she is. It might be nice if women wore labels like "Gold Digger" or "Daddy's girl"....but they don't so it's down to you to find these things out and you cannot just ask direct questions. You have to know what mistakes you can avoid making and how to affect this lady if you decide you want to do that.
After you are past the initial little talk, ask her, "What are the biggest mistakes guys make when dating online?" Listen fastidiously to her answers. She's going to tell you a lot about herself and her views on men in general.
Next you must ask her, "What do you really think about online dating?" Now she is going to tell you if she's had any bad experiences dating o line and help you to avoid making similar things wrong.
After That try to pinpoint her risk tolerance level. This is really important if {you're|you are] an entrepreneur or operate a home business as varying risk tolerances can spell disaster for your relationship.
Now for the all-important one....."What caused the split up in your last relationship?" If she puts all of the blame on the guy, you should probably move on to the following prospect. If she is taking all of the blame herself, you must doubtless do the same. If she says the breakup was by mutual consent or that the relationship just wasn't right for either of them, you've heard the proper answer. Go on but always with caution.
Asking the most relevant questions will give you discernment and make you more assured when you meet the lady for the 1st time.
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